Love Life and How you live it.

During  your life you’ll there is a purpose in everyone you meet.  Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you.  But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.  Some how you must find people in your life who truly love you for you, who motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy.  If you know people who do none of these things, let them go.

Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates or showing off.  It’s about being with a person who makes you happy in away nobody else can.  Too often we underestimate the the power of touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring.  All of which has the potential to turn a life around.  Did you know that the most beautifullest thing in the world is to see a person you love smiling.   And even more beautiful is knowing that that you are the reason behind it.

With that being said, choose your relationships wisely.  It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.  Being alone doesn’t mean you are lonely, and being lonely dose not mean you are alone.  Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.  Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.  You know when you’ve found true love when you catch yourself falling in love with the same person over and over again.  Don’t wait for the right person to come into your life.  Rather, be the right person to come into someone’s life.  Remember, the one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst.

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.  Remember you are your priority, because there is only one you.  Let it be known that some relationships are like glass.  It’s better to leave it broken, than to hurt yourself more, by trying to put it back together, would you say?  Just because one person hurt you and doesn’t seem to care for you.  Doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who does and hurt them because of someone else.  Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right, because right and wrong is sometime a belief is based on the other person’s belief.  With that being said, it okay to be angry, but it never okay to be cruel.  Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset or angry. 

Always remember this, silence is often the loudest cry.  Pay attention to those you care about even when they are silent, because we don’t always need advice.  Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand us.  Pay attention to those who love you and leave those who don’t along.


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